Is it a Boy or Is it a man??


It’s not about his age nor package nor his well manicured face nor six pack…nor abs..a man may still be a boy at fifty .
It’s not even about his bank balance nor his drive because believe me ,no matter how wealthy he maybe today if he is still a boy he will lose it all .
So what do you look for ?
What separates men and boys ?

A man is someone who has studied the laws of the Universe ;that state that ,a man’s happiness is directly proportional to the maturity and wisdom of the woman in his life .
Obama is the President of USA whilst Michelle is in the driving seat ….hope you follow my drift.
A man will spot that woman pursue her for keeps whilst boys are still loving a pussy a night .

A man will take a bullet for a woman he loves whereas a boy will run and leave you to your own fate.A man sees a good thing ,knows he wants it , and goes for it. A boy may have somewhat of an idea, which is vague not thought through and not really. He doesn’t think too much about it, and even if he does, doesn’t exert much effort to get it.There is no commitment or devotion from a boy .
A man makes time for his woman spends all his time with her and meets the boys for a drink on the other hand a boy spends all his time with the boys and meets his woman for a fuck .
We have all met this jerk girls the one who comes to see you late at night and the first line he says is ….”Lawd I’m horny ..!” Chxeeeeew!!!(African)

Whilst a boy is passive, a man is assertive and will make a way whilst a man can’t take away all your trouble at least he sees you through them.
A man plans for his future and is working towards building a base and solid foundation in order to have a happy home in his future plans.
A boy may get a house and material stuff but with no solid investment structure and his plans are mostly around which pleasure spots for the weekend or which cunt to hit .A man knows you have to do the graft to make the dough ,then fun .

A man looks for a woman who is wise to help him make calculated decisions , who not only shares his dreams but looks in the same direction in life’s goals . A boy cares mostly only for sexy girls and beautiful legs .

A man knows a good woman when he meets one and will take initiative to get to know her. A boy may makes an attempt but soon gives up before ever really trying mostly because he has no guts to follow through or he has found a better choice.

A man has the courage to have serious hard hitting conversations maybe even be questioned on his choices or strengths .He puts his cards on the table and gives every one an informed choice . A boy avoids anything serious keeps secrets and will keep you guessing and if caught out on his lies will still want to bluff his way through it .

A man will read Esquire , enquire research and study how to make his woman happy . How to completely and totally satisfy her not only that but he will also ensure she has orgasms . If he is under stress will share mayb not immediately but soon enough to allay his lady’s worries and anxieties but a boy will only look after himself and will pout and go into a man mood for days whilst his woman worries what’s happening .
He does not care whether his woman comes or not …
A man will learn ways to enhance and prolong foreplay ..!

To a man it’s all about his woman to a boy it’s me me me !
Instead of dealing with a situation, he runs away from it or creates drama or excuses to mask the fact he’s not that into you or a relationship.
A man knows when to invest in a woman and jumps in head first.A boy is always “testing” – he doesn’t fully commit because he never knows if he is quite ready. But the truth is, because he is a boy, regardless of who he meets, he will never be ready due to the stage of life he is in and some never move from this stage even some sixty year olds remain boys.

A man knows just how much to give a woman not too much but just good enough.
A boy does not have a clue .A man knows how to have a good time and be social, but is often busy making strides in his career and building his life. A boy is getting drunk or drugged with his buddies at the niteclub every weekend.
A man takes the time to reflect on the type of man he wants to be, The type of life he wants to lead,the example he wants to leave and the vision for his life. He has put thought into his values. A boy has not established his moral co values and consequently, his actions are not in harmony with his statements .

A man has integrity…says what he means. And means what he says he keeps his promises. A boy makes promises but doesn’t follow through.
A man is afraid of losing you but will put himself in front of the firing squad anyway. A boy is afraid of commitment and will play safe and pretend .
Now, one of the signs that you can spot from the beginning is this:

Boys play games…men don’t !!

To the love you deserve



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