Ndeipi (shona slang for hie).

Someone asked me to do a small piece on the effects of porn on men. I think I did a piece last week or so but I guess my message didn’t really hit home.

So, here is my take: porn doesn’t teach you how to please a woman (As for the woman, it doesn’t teach her how to ‘seek’ pleasure from her guy).

– yes, you can learn one or two things/ideas from it asi you must always remember kuti it’s not realistic.

Most -if not all- guys who watch porn end up masturbating. Yes, you’re masturbating because you like how she’s making noises or ma facial expressions ake but what you do not realise is: you’re building a sexual taste based on unrealistic stuff.

– in porn, a woman can deepthroat. In the real world, she can’t & if she tried to, she’ll most likely end up vomiting.
– in porn, all women don’t have pubic hair. In the real world, most women have pubic hair plus will not consider shaving because the only other time they shaved, it irritated/itched like crazy. Vakavaviwa!
– in porn, women beg for anal sex. In the real world, they wouldn’t even consider it.
– in porn, the women are forever horny & want sex ALL THE TIME. In the real world, they don’t.
– in porn, the women love to have the man ejaculate on their faces. In the real world, most women find it disgusting.
– in porn, women want to be (slapped, spat at, treated like shit etc) but in the real world, you can’t do that shit..
– in porn, there’s no foreplay. There’s no intimacy (romance etc). She sucks his dick for 7 minutes & he licks her pussy for 1 minute. In the real world, women EXPECT lengthy foreplay.
– in porn, the women’s noises are greatly exaggerated. They scream loud, shout, roll eyes endlessly, make wild facial expressions etc. Everything is over the top. But in the real world, they’re not on the same level. Havana kufanana.

So, you see. There’s a very big difference. Porn stars are ACTORS. There’s a director behind the cameras..ordering the woman to “get louder..give me wild facial expressions..tell him to fuck you harder..tell him to cum on your face”. In some movies, you can actually hear the director whispering orders.

It’s a job. They are paid to act. After the cameras and lights are switched off, they remove their heavy make up, bath, wear normal clothes and then go home. In short, they become normal people once again.

Do not expect your woman to scream like Pinky The Pornstar. Do not expect her to want sex all the time. Do not expect her to deepthroat you. She’s not an actor, a porn actor. What you see in porn is unreal.

That’s my two cents on this issue even though I feel like I haven’t said much.

So…..

Icho!

Svirorist!

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Effects Of Porn On Men

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